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[N16LndnAkhi]

this is such a virgin thread LOL

[Hum.786]

fair enough, it is a "personal matter" but i agree with the fact that it has to be spoken about more often!!! its human, its natural.. but in my opinon wrong
however fun it may be, i think it's not humanly good, and not islamically right.
my family and i talk about these things openly, and we all joined the gym as soon as we "turned into adults" so we could get rid of our energy appropriately.
my dad says he'd rather we had a gf/bf to be sexually active with than masturbate :/

[Saad]

Your dad is clearly misguided, fornification is a major sin and zina, and other youths viewing this board should not take it lightly.

Please watch the following video relating to these topics of sexuality if you want to find out the islamic stance and wisdoms behind not doing these acts, and ways of repenting and stopping and rebuilding iman if you have let yourself down.

http://www.thedeenshow.com/show.php?act ... il&id=1424
and
http://www.thedeenshow.com/show.php?act ... il&id=2030

[Sybarite]

Hum786

I think most ppl would prefer to have a bf/gf than masturbate but it's a fun
And safe alternative right?? And IMHO people don't stop doing it even after they have a partner. I can prob understand why islamically it may be wrong but humanly? Convince me!

[Hum.786]

Hi Sybarite,

I guess it is a fun and safe alternative yes, but I believe in the Seven Sins and one of them is lust. When you have a gf/bf it's not all about the physical, you build a relationship too. But masturbating? i think it's humanly wrong because it's all about lust, and it's not benifitting you in any way, shape or form.

That's my opinion anyway, i'm not here to preach

[Learning]

Hm, why would something Islamically wrong be humanly good for you?

(Just a question, no judgement )

[liberalmuslim]

What is humanly wrong with masturbation? There us no medical evidence for it us there?
Hum I don't think lust is one of the deadly sins in Islam.

[Hum.786]

Scienitfic Evidence doesn't justufy things in my book... and it may not be in Islam, but it is known like that generally. of course a little lust is natural and fine, but having to masturbate means you have a little to much. just my opinion remember
what do you think about not having sex before marriage but masturbating....?
just my opinion btw

[transhuman]

this is a funny thread! lol!

[LamishaxD]

wanking is just disgusting....lol