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I think very few guys have the view you hold, as most do actually look at the appearance of a girl. Brother N16 mentioned in another topic that as a male, he can say that what attracts a guy is the face and the body. I agree with what you said about facebook stalking to a certain extent, it doesn't help the cause. It just makes you fall for this person more, and as spurfectsk said, it's only lust. And lust, now that's a wicked thing. There's a reason it's one of the seven deadly sins.

It's very hard to turn away from all the triggers as we do need to go shopping and other stuff, it's hard not to hear a song about sex and beautiful girls. It's not the feelings that you have to be weary of, it's the actions that follow.